“I Feel Violated And Incredibly Hurt That My Parents Cut The Head Of My Clitoris -Nigerian Activist, Lolo Cynthia Ihesie
“I Feel Violated And Incredibly Hurt That My Parents Cut The
Head Of My Clitoris -Nigerian Activist, Lolo Cynthia Ihesie
Nigerian lobbyist, Lolo Cynthia Ihesie has uncovered that she as of late found that she was circumcised and she was harmed by the revelation.
The previous Rave TV moderator said she was showing her more youthful sisters Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) when she discovered that she had been circumcised when she was 3 months old.
She said her mom educated her that each lady in their family was exposed to genital mutilation.
She further clarified the impact genital mutilation has had on her. She additionally prompted ladies against it.
“At 3 months old, my family removed my clitoral head (FGM1) on the grounds that they didn’t need me to grow up to be wanton.
This was never revealed to me till I was a grown-up while I was teaching my more youthful sisters about FGM and its suggestions.
Normally, I am interested about my body and I educate about sex and joy I saw that I didnt have a clitoral head yet never needed to accept that it was expected to FGM
I expected I just didnt have a thick clitoral tissue despite the fact that immediate improvement to the clit damages and I have to work around the clitoris to discover my pleasure spot since the outer tissue where the greater part of the delight spot is found was cut.
I feel abused and inconceivably hurt by this revelation yet toward the end It has given me understanding with respect to why I am the place I am and why my message about infringement against ladies is essential to me.
I am an igbo young lady and this is basic in igbo land. My mom said it was done to each young lady she knows including her-moms did it to their girls.. some despite everything do.
I urge you to address your moms and inquire as to whether they slice you or go to a gynecologist to inquire.I share this since I need other little youngsters to see that FGM doesn’t characterize us or our sexuality.
We merit delight!
You can work with your body to realize what gives you that joy regardless!”